You definitely are a workaholic. This does not mean that you are at the workplace 24 hours a day and but the thing is that it's difficult for you to disconnect from the thoughts of work. That's why, whenever you happen to be outside the workplace, all your thoughts are still there. Of course you love what you do and it's great but you should learn not to think about work when it is not required for example on a date. After all, one way or another, these thoughts obscure the general atmosphere and few people, especially the opposite sex, like it. Your task number one is to learn to separate the pleasant from the useful and then you will have real personal happiness.